Why do Women find it Hard to Orgasm?
There are studies that suggest that more women than men find it hard to orgasm for a variety of factors. Some of the more common factors that usually come in the way of women denying them the pleasure of orgasm include; hormonal status, stress, age, sexual experience, and the kind of sexual activity. There are studies that indicate that majority of women can easily orgasm when masturbating than when they are actually involved in conventional sex with a partner. So why then do women find it hard to orgasm?
Because of a numb vagina
The number of women who are able to achieve orgasms via the vagina through penetrative sex is low. This is due to the fact that most of them usually have vaginas that are numb. A numb vagina usually occurs due to some sort of disassociation due to social or even emotional trauma. Other studies also suggest that a numb vagina may be caused as a result of the kind of repressive or oppressive culture that she may be living in. A numb vagina is one that has very little sensation or feeling. With this a woman will find it very hard to cum especially with the traditional penetrative missionary style of sex.
The good news is that a numb vagina can corrected for the woman to actually start having orgasms again and enjoy sex like it should. There are practices like the vaginal kung fu that fan greatly help a woman to restore sensation on a numb vagina. The woman can also talk with her sexual partner to engage in deeper penetrative sex in order to attain orgasm.
Due to a weak vagina
A numb vagina is also weak and a weak vagina works negatively for the woman not to be able to reach orgasm easily. Even though a woman with a weak vagina can still get some level of pleasure from sex, the level of the pleasure will less intense and therefore not ecstatic. A strong vagina is one which a woman can use to make his man ejaculate or even stop his man from ejaculating. The hallmark of a strong vagina is one that is more responsive and can cause the friction that is needed to bring about pleasure for both you and your partner. Being able to squeeze or rub against what is inside of your vagina makes it possible for you to attain orgasm.
Stress and other emotional or physically related challenges
Stress or other emotional trauma also makes it difficult for women to orgasm for obvious reasons. Sex occurs in the brain and if the brain isn’t at peace it becomes very difficult for the woman to enjoy sex let alone attain an orgasm.
Physical causes such as injuries or surgical procedure may also contribute to a woman not being able to reach orgasm. When sex is painful it becomes very difficult for a woman to orgasm because orgasms only occurs when the body and mind is totally free form any form of pain.
